Choosing A Life Partner

Are you still single and still searching? Then this is for you. Are you tired of what you are into and confuse you wanted to start over again? Then this will guide you through the search.

God does not impose anyone on someone. There is no one particular person for anyone. He can direct you and help in matching if you want him to. 

Tips on how to choose a life partner 

Desire a partner

You will always get what you desire. Make up your mind and desire it prov 10:24. There is always something in desire it builds the atmosphere around you that create sensitivity in you to make choice or take action.

Make yourself fit for it

Grow up, you are not going to be a baby husband or baby father. Marriage is not for the immature it is for the mature so beef up in all area.

Ask God in prayer

If you can not pray to God to direct you then be ready for anything. I have not seen anything prayer can not do.

Don’t rely only on dreams

Be careful dreams can be influenced. Imagine a smoker came to you and you have been praying asking God to show in dreams; well you may be on your way to a crash. God do speak to some people in dreams, that is if you are one of such. But be sure is God. So after dreams you still need to investigate then the dream will just be confirmation.

Mingle

Singles mingle to marry. My advice, make good friends and be directed or lead among your friends. I’m saying is better to marry a friend. So build a godly friendship.

Make your intention known

Tell her you want to marry her and the ladies say yes or no. Don’t keep anyone in the dark and assume they understand.

Don’t even think to use sign method

Father if she is going to be my wife let her come to my house this morning to ask for help. Behold she walks up to you asking if you could help her with your blender or something else. Thank god you say in your heart I have found my life partner. My brother, be careful that may be familiar spirit answering your prayer. Don’t even settle for sign.

Go ahead with it

Establish a courtship with the fear of God, and read on how to bring your courtship into marriage.

What to do during the courtship

Put God first

Avoid unnecessary petting

Resist the pressure of sex

Avoid unnecessary closeness

Avoid porn movies and careless talk

Make self known to parents early enough

See your Pastor or Mentore