Welcome to the part two of true life experiences. Life may be up side down. Sometimes you may even wonder if God is aware, my dear He is aware. He alone can turn you sorrow to joy. If you want to read the previous case studies click here.
Case Study 4
Best friend that is what people consider Mary and Amaka. Amaka was busy having romance with Mary’s husband, her best friend. To cut a long story short, Mary had misunderstanding with her husband and she moved out of the house to her parent’s house only for Amaka to take advantage of that despite she is also married. Both Amaka and frank planed to divorce their spouses, which they did and both of them started cohabiting eventually they did a traditional bride price payment.
The Counsel
She was willingly to wait on God and be patient with her husband. Before I continue, I would want you to gain something from these stories, not just reading without learning. If you are yet single, you are at an advantage. It was prayer rain and God answered her.
She will always show love, concern and appreciation as she was advised to do. His birthday, Christmas and New Year wishes were not forgotten, even when he changed his number she will always find out. It was painful but later it became gainful. Do you really think you can do this if you were in her shoes? Bad friend you will say, but what lead to your irresolvable differences? “I know I became too pushy and incorrigible” she confessed. “My husband was lovely and kind but when his business went down he gets easily irritated at the slightest noise.” She added “But I pushed it too far” she said in conclusion.
She learnt her lessons in the hard way. How do you handle changes in your spouse’s attitude? Do you use fire for fire method whereby stretching it too much?
Case study 5
The Counsel
Case Study 6
The Counsel
I told her to always make advances and show love. She should improve on herself and work on her temperament. Above she should pray. Some prayer point was given and she separated them spiritually. Her husband came begging for forgiveness.
My dear when you noticed that you husband has started display some ugly character and you suspect some foul play, just change your ways of approach. If you are fond of scolding and nagging since you noticed this demeanor, change your approach immediately. Start being, friendly, caring and supportive; you can even be the one making moves of sexual intimacy and all that. Apologize even when you know you are not wrong. He is the man and you are the woman. If you don’t, someone will show him the softness in a female and snatch your man away.
The Counsel
She was willingly to wait on God and be patient with her husband. Before I continue, I would want you to gain something from these stories, not just reading without learning. If you are yet single, you are at an advantage. It was prayer rain and God answered her.
She will always show love, concern and appreciation as she was advised to do. His birthday, Christmas and New Year wishes were not forgotten, even when he changed his number she will always find out. It was painful but later it became gainful. Do you really think you can do this if you were in her shoes? Bad friend you will say, but what lead to your irresolvable differences? “I know I became too pushy and incorrigible” she confessed. “My husband was lovely and kind but when his business went down he gets easily irritated at the slightest noise.” She added “But I pushed it too far” she said in conclusion.
She learnt her lessons in the hard way. How do you handle changes in your spouse’s attitude? Do you use fire for fire method whereby stretching it too much?
Case study 5
Up till now their marriage is still in a serious state of dilapidation. Her eldest daughter’s friend took her husband. When she was told that her husband has married a second wife she resorted to physical battle disregarding the counseling from her pastor. Now the wicked agent of darkness is in the house she and her children has been disowned and thrown out.
The Counsel
She was counseled contrary to her actions but she refused. She said she still loves her husband and they should help her in prayer. Please join me as I pray for her broken home I believe her husband will come back.
Case Study 6
Men are wicked was the first word that came from her mouth, crying and narrating how she has suffered with her husband and how the man is cheating on her. She opened up that sometimes she will deprive her husband sex from the time she noticed deviant behavior in her husband. She will always quarrel him and sometimes her go out because of the quarrel. But now the worse has happened, he has started seeing someone else.
The Counsel
I told her to always make advances and show love. She should improve on herself and work on her temperament. Above she should pray. Some prayer point was given and she separated them spiritually. Her husband came begging for forgiveness.
My dear when you noticed that you husband has started display some ugly character and you suspect some foul play, just change your ways of approach. If you are fond of scolding and nagging since you noticed this demeanor, change your approach immediately. Start being, friendly, caring and supportive; you can even be the one making moves of sexual intimacy and all that. Apologize even when you know you are not wrong. He is the man and you are the woman. If you don’t, someone will show him the softness in a female and snatch your man away.
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