There is hardly any matrimony without both or one of the partners cheating or being unfaithful to their spouse. In most cases it is the man that cheats. Sometimes the woman out of frustration and with a view to pay back they are pushed into it. There was a case in Enugu Nigeria, whereby the man is known for promiscuity, the wife out of frustration started dating someone else in that community the marriage then was at the threshold of collapse.
Sometime ago too, the story of one millionaire’s wife around the Niger here in Nigeria also, was very much in circulation; the husband trail his wife to a hotel and met his dearly beloved below the tummy of a well built young man, both of them were in their birthday cloth.
In this paper we want to outline the various red flag alert one can use to discover early enough if their partner is fooling around with other people. don'y forget, infidelity is not enough reason to break up your marriage. instead of ending that marriage you can work out channels through which you can make things fall in place.
Dying intimacyDying intimacy
You noticed that both of you are no more close or that the intimacy is gradually fading away; don’t just assume is because of stress and tiredness from the day’s job; it is good you investigate and look out for other alerts, it may be that your partner is seeing someone else.
And that the intimacy has been shifted to someone else. There is no way one can satisfy two master at a time and it natural to prefer the latest master or mistress.
Jumpy habit when receiving calls
When spouse act strange whenever they receive calls and sometime act nervous when you are with them, them they may be having something to cover.
They idea is that pretend as if you didn’t notice and play along so that you can investigate and know the course of your next action.
Sudden dishonest attitude
Some people are habitual lies, in that case it may not be what we are saying but if out of no where your dearest started giving excuses for coming home late and telling lies, and then you should know that there is something up their sleeve. Your once lovely partner is gradually becoming a dishonest person and insincere; this could be an indication that your partner is seeing someone else.
Attitude signals
All of a sudden your spouse is acting strange and aggressive, you wonder if their love is gradually fading; my dear act quickly that may be a red alert that they are cheating on you.
Some of his friends may also act strange; trying to avoid you because of guilt and they want to cover their friend and save your marriage.
Sum up from your instinct
If your instinct tells you something don’t just ignore it go a little further to investigate it. It may be that what you are afraid of or don’t want to hear is what is actually happening. When we talked about investigation here we don not mean interrogations. You will never find out the truth from interrogations. They will just tell you lie, pretend and cover up and know how to conceal it the more.
Always talk about a particular friend of the opposite sex or always mistakenly calls someone’s name instead of yours
Remember when you were first in love with your spouse you are always found of them. In the same vein they are found of their new catch. Whenever they always mistake someone’s name for your name, hay! My dear friend there is an axe to grind. Or they are found of telling you about how good a particular person is then quickly raise your suspicions and look out carefully there may be someone out there who is gradually stealing your partner away from you.
Your spouse was once a victim
You spouse has been caught in the same web of infidelity and now the indication is that he is into it again.
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