Before your Mr. or Mrs. Right finds you, or before you find love, you must not be sitting down there doing nothing. You must be busy doing something worthwhile. You may just find that person as you are busy with your life.
Personal Develop
While you are yet to be married, don't be despirate just take your time to work on yourself. Build your vocabulary, learn new ideas or trade, get higher certificate. Be better than what you were. Don't be a liability no one will want to marry a liabillity.
Spiritual stewardship
The period of singleness should be when you should give your best to your maker, use it to accumulate his blessings and aproval for your life. Don't run arround doing nothing for God.
Youth department
Most mature youth ignore the gathering of young people. They make friends with married people avoiding those who will notice them on time. serve in the youth department of your church. singles mingle with other singles to marry.
Right association and godly friendship
You destiny can be easily predicted by others via the company you keep. Have godly and good people as friends. Your spouse would certainly come from your circle of friends.
Find your Purpose and achieve dream
You need to discover yourself and that purpose for which you are here on earth. Make good use of your time. Ask yourself some basic questions; why am I here? What am I to fix? What should i get done before the nearest future? etc. answers to these questions will take you closer to purpose. So when you find out you will certainly know how to make your choice on who to marry.
Learn how to make money
Money answers all things including marriage, love will grow stronger when you are able to pay your bills and settle some issues when they arise in the family. So get cracking.
Learn how to manage and grow money
As moeney gets into your hands, you need to sustain it and increase the income capacity. You will be miserable if you can't grow and manage it you progress in marriage.
Grow up for marriage
You are not going to be a baby husband or wife. So you need to grow up in all facet of life. Maturity is not only a function of age but also of the mind. Prepare socialy, financialy, spiritualy and mentaly as the case may be.
Improve your knowledge on marriage
A lady once said she can't attend seminar on marriage before she marries, that there is no need. You see that is the beginning of trouble. Read books, listen to discs, and watch marriage programmes. Seek counseling and do all it takes to be successful.
Dress as to be rightly addressed
Dress to attract the right partner. Indecent dressing can give a wrong signals. Be decent and godly in all including dressing.
Pray ceaselessly and tiredlessly
Pray always, bring your petitions before God. Ask God for the rightful partner. Spend quality time to pray. Pray and aske God for everything the future is uncertain and God is in it already so ask him,
Love your bible
Be worded and loaded with the spirit of the word. The amount of God's word in you is the extent of liberty you have in the world. Equip yourself with it because you need the word to overcome.
Save yourself from character bankruptcy
Character bankruptcy can do more than the devil can do. Work on your weak spot and on you defficiencies. Don't tell that, that is how you are, every one can change. Tame your tongue, kill the anger spirit, fight that jealous spirit in you, Improve generally on the way you behave. Let your spouse be happy when they marry you.
Get ready to head for the alter of bliss you are next in linne for a glorious mirracle. Amen
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